The Western Gate

Toing and Froing, Up 'n' Down in the Earth


Cope with Negative Feelings (WordPress prompt-15/03/25)

Daily writing prompt
What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings?

Firstly everything thought of as negative can be turned into thoughts of sarcasm and wit, that which is bringing us down we can delight in, because it’s imperfect.
Can the hungry laugh at those with gorging at the sumptuous banquet? perhaps I’m being a tad naïve.
Negative feelings arise from limitation, the austerity of our being, our situation and usually an unfavourable position wrought by the actions others have placed upon us. We become envious and jealous of them, we want to be in that position of contentment where our decisions enhance our lives, even at the risk of degrading others. Some say it is survival of the fittest and others lack of compassion. The end and same result is some win, some lose.
If we lose, how do we overcome those negative feelings?
Existentialism~ Existentialism is a philosophical movement that emphasizes individual freedom, choice, and the inherent meaninglessness of life. It suggests that people must create their own meaning and values through their actions, despite the challenges of living in an indifferent or even absurd world.
Are we meaningless? By the scale of the universe and the actual size we inhabit in it, mathematically to the nearest nth number, as a ratio of the earth to the observable universe, we don’t actually exist. In the time scale of the universe to our life time, if in the scale of a year we inhabit perhaps a blink of an eye. Do we matter? Suffering is suffering even in the moment after all, as temporal as it is.
When I am feeling negative I can only do one of a few things.
Listen to or play/create music.
Wander aimlessly on my own, somewhere in nature.
Stand under the canopy of the stars, hold my hand up and know, as meaningless and insignificant as I, you and, definitely Elon Musk and Trump are in the scheme of things, that I, and we, exist, here and now! Despite the suffering, in the majesty of the universe and the limitless boundary of time, we are a miracle. It may be rose tinted, and I may be naïve still, but the music plays on. Forever.

The Death of Seneca-Rubens, Peter Paul c.1612-
Stoicism in the face of abject misery, accepting fate, and the limitations we have to break out, surrender, breathe, and sing a happy song.

Be Like Oddball~ (Kelly’s Heroes-1970 )



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The Random musings of a nobody. “Dagenham Dave”, is slang for someone one stop short of Barking (mad), though more contemporarily refers to any wayfaring and carefree person. Dagenham is a town to the eastern side of London (Luds Dominium) that was first recorded in a Barking charter in 666a.d. as the town of Daeccanham. Daecca is an ancient man’s name meaning ‘bright’ or ‘famous’ . Ham is short for Hamlet.
Dave is short for David, Hebrew for ‘Beloved’, My Surname ‘Wenborn’ derives from old English meaning of the Winding Stream.

Contents:-
1/ Book Reviews.

They’re not reviews as such- to recommend or asway, I neither seek to promote nor condemn, more my personal reflections on the books I read. In that respect it’s a subjective thing.
2/ Short Stories and Tales

Short stories borne from imagination, dreams, thoughts and wanderings. Too large to be written in my journal of shadows.
3/ Full Books
Books that were once published elsewhere, I have full copyright on these, and of course given here freely.
4/ Magazines and Articles

Small snippets and articles that may or may not have appeared elsewhere, and information not included in Journal of shadows.
5/ Poetry

A small selection of poetry. Like song, I create as a means to an artistic diary.
6/ WordPress Challenges

Wordpress (where this website is hosted) offer up a daily prompt for people to answer, sometimes I do, sometimes I don’t.



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